tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7634583.post115516356693020081..comments2023-08-29T04:13:20.964-07:00Comments on in time of daff0dils...: lashon horah (remember my loose tongue, forget what I just said)daff0dilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11698532080377831571noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7634583.post-1155320822929776822006-08-11T11:27:00.000-07:002006-08-11T11:27:00.000-07:00You know, if you leave enough comment, it's almost...You know, if you leave enough comment, it's almost like an entry. And then I am almost like satisfied.machine centralhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17800261088423791776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7634583.post-1155310737886136562006-08-11T08:38:00.000-07:002006-08-11T08:38:00.000-07:00This is fascinating to me. Most religions/cultures...This is fascinating to me. Most religions/cultures/traditions seem to have some (often ignored) regulations about speech/gossip. And they don't seem entirely dissimilar. Learning to regulate one's speech is actually a fairly difficult feat.Subject matter. Style. Ever tried to suddenly drop slang or a curse word? Multiply that when considering subject matter. As llamaduck commented, it changes who you are. I once had an assignment to not ask any questions for 3 days. it was incredible to find ways to work around that and to realize how many questions are actually requests and manipulations of the same.<BR/>speech, for the very verbal, is a reflection of their deepest innerworkings and thought processes. not just what they say but how they say it<BR/>I want to think more about this. maybe I'll blog about it somedaydaff0dilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698532080377831571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7634583.post-1155270287260777132006-08-10T21:24:00.000-07:002006-08-10T21:24:00.000-07:00Hmm. Hm.Hmm. Hm.machine centralhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17800261088423791776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7634583.post-1155243368992557612006-08-10T13:56:00.000-07:002006-08-10T13:56:00.000-07:00much empathy from me. I missed the offending post...much empathy from me. I missed the offending post, but I know the feeling of having said something you didn't mean to say outloud to others. Buddhists have the tenent of "right speech." I've tried practicing it. I felt like it made me not me, which is interesting in itself. good luck!Bjetseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03555204152810415312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7634583.post-1155236157476686512006-08-10T11:55:00.000-07:002006-08-10T11:55:00.000-07:00it's just a short hiatus until I can get it back t...it's just a short hiatus until I can get it back together again and feel positive about what I am postingdaff0dilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698532080377831571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7634583.post-1155229523000932902006-08-10T10:05:00.000-07:002006-08-10T10:05:00.000-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.daff0dilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698532080377831571noreply@blogger.com