In the end I can't really do anything about the crap people put eachother through than be that much more awesome and amazing for myself and others. that much more supportive and understanding and funny and warm and dependable.
I forget that. in my anger and frustration.
I have an obligation to myself and those I love to counter the pain with hope. to only pay heed to the crime in as much as it provides cautionary guidance. then it is time to move on. on and up.